Sunday, we will be looking at Prayer as a leading indicator. Cameron & Lauren will share their testimony on how prayer has affected their marriage.
We hope to see everyone there!
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
It's a Luau Party!!
Don't forget....hope to see all of you there!!
Pre-Event: Smoke the Pig- Friday June 29th @ 6pm
Where: Cameron & Lauren's Apartment Complex
1124 Hidden Ridge Irving,TX 75038
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Monday, June 25, 2012
Marriage Tip Monday
Cultivate a spirit of generosity in your marriage. Generosity is "Liberality in giving" or the "willingness to give." Be willing to liberally give your love, forgiveness, affection, words of affirmation, and even your time and energy to your spouse. Never base your giving on what you might or might not receive in return. The beauty and power of a generous spirit is the joy that radiates from a pure motive.
From Union 28
From Union 28
Friday, June 22, 2012
Rolling Stones Baby Shower
Here are the pictures from the Rolling Stones Baby Shower a few Sundays ago. Thanks Erin for taking the pictures, it was such a fun time of celebration and prayer!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/erin-king/7174528825/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/erin-king/7174528825/
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Leading Indicators
This Sunday we will kick off our 12-week marriage series on Leading Indicators. This content has been taught about 20 times over the past six years to various groups at First Irving.
The lessons provide couples with very practical measuring tools to diagnose the health of their marriages. Each of the 11 indicators line up with
1) scripture,
2) Christian marriage counselors, and 3) secular marriage researchers.
The last time we went through the lessons, there was a lot of laughter, some tears, and great stories from newlyweds about their relationships.
We can't wait to see what happens as we open the Bible to learn about how to stay on the right track as we love God first and love our spouses second!
The lessons provide couples with very practical measuring tools to diagnose the health of their marriages. Each of the 11 indicators line up with
1) scripture,
2) Christian marriage counselors, and 3) secular marriage researchers.
The last time we went through the lessons, there was a lot of laughter, some tears, and great stories from newlyweds about their relationships.
We can't wait to see what happens as we open the Bible to learn about how to stay on the right track as we love God first and love our spouses second!
Monday, June 18, 2012
Marriage Tip Monday
Spring brings about change, and can inspire you to think about your dreams. Maybe there is somewhere you’ve always wanted to travel. Maybe you’ve dreamt of a career move. Maybe it’s the desire to have another child. Spend time sharing these things with your spouse and find something both of you want in life – then dream about how to make it happen. Shared dreams can help bond the two of you together.
From Union 28
From Union 28
Monday, June 11, 2012
Marriage Tip Monday
Smile! A smile is a small, self-less act of kindness and respect that can make a big impact. A smile acknowledges another person - it lets them know you are happy to see them, that they are worth your attention, and that you are pleased by their presence. So the next time you make eye contact with your spouse, smile! (This even works over the phone - your spouse can detect when you're smiling, even when your face is unseen!)
From Union 28
From Union 28
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Date Night
Looking for some fun things to do with your beloved this summer? Check out this website:
Here are a few of my favorites!
~ Go to a restaurant you both have never been to.
~ Go off the grid for the weekend- no cell phones, no tv, no computers. You'll be amazed at what you do for entertainment.
~ Go on a food crawl. Go to a different restaurant for an appetizer, entrée, and dessert.
Here are a few of my favorites!
~ Go to a restaurant you both have never been to.
~ Go off the grid for the weekend- no cell phones, no tv, no computers. You'll be amazed at what you do for entertainment.
~ Go on a food crawl. Go to a different restaurant for an appetizer, entrée, and dessert.
Monday, June 4, 2012
Marriage Tip Monday
Husbands, a helpful invention has been the ability to record your favorite game and watch it later or find the rerun on the internet. If your wife isn't a sports fan, surprise her by recording the game and spending that time with her - she'll know you're making a sacrifice.
From Union 28
From Union 28
Saturday, June 2, 2012
One Liners
From Janine Petry at Thriving Family
I don't have a problem with respect — it's showing respect to my husband that I can't quite get the hang of.
Showing disrespect has become a modern marriage pastime. We laugh as our favorite on-screen wives make fools out of their husbands, and before long we're talking like these leading ladies.
Here are some ways we show disrespect:
Witty one-liners are clever ways to get the last word. Example: "You can tell me how hard work is after you birth three children."
Sarcasm uses mocking words to strike at him personally. Example: "That's your best idea yet; got any more?"
Misplaced laughter ridicules him, whether or not he's around. Example: "He actually thinks those look good together."
Demeaning reminders imply a lack of trust. Example: "So are we actually going to see you on time today?"
I've come to understand that the phrase "Women need love and men need respect" is more than just a slogan — it's Scripture (Ephesians 5:33). So I try to use encouraging words to show my husband respect. The opportunities are endless, and my words have the potential to empower my husband to be more of the man God wants him to be. When I'm sincere and he accepts my words, our marriage is strengthened.
Here's how I've been making the transition from casual disrespect to intentional respect: I start with prayer, asking God to change my heart and my attitude. I also listen carefully to my words. Finally, I replace rudeness with words that exhibit honor for the husband God gave me.
These alternatives show respect:
Ask questions: Give him a chance to express himself. Example: "What made work so difficult today?"
Keep it simple: Make clear statements about issues. Example: "I'm not sure that's going to work. Are there any other options?"
Encourage: Choose words that highlight his individuality. Example: "I love that he's daring enough to wear that."
Tell the truth: Express concerns and affirm positive changes. Example: "It's been really hard for us when you're late; I appreciate you making the effort to get home earlier."
I show respect to my husband because God brought up the subject. It's His way of leading me into a marriage that is blessed as it reflects the loving relationship between Christ and His bride, the church. Marriage has a purpose far greater than my husband's and my relationship. Our unity expressed in love and respect is nothing short of God's witness to the world of His great love.
I don't have a problem with respect — it's showing respect to my husband that I can't quite get the hang of.
Showing disrespect has become a modern marriage pastime. We laugh as our favorite on-screen wives make fools out of their husbands, and before long we're talking like these leading ladies.
Here are some ways we show disrespect:
Witty one-liners are clever ways to get the last word. Example: "You can tell me how hard work is after you birth three children."
Sarcasm uses mocking words to strike at him personally. Example: "That's your best idea yet; got any more?"
Misplaced laughter ridicules him, whether or not he's around. Example: "He actually thinks those look good together."
Demeaning reminders imply a lack of trust. Example: "So are we actually going to see you on time today?"
I've come to understand that the phrase "Women need love and men need respect" is more than just a slogan — it's Scripture (Ephesians 5:33). So I try to use encouraging words to show my husband respect. The opportunities are endless, and my words have the potential to empower my husband to be more of the man God wants him to be. When I'm sincere and he accepts my words, our marriage is strengthened.
Here's how I've been making the transition from casual disrespect to intentional respect: I start with prayer, asking God to change my heart and my attitude. I also listen carefully to my words. Finally, I replace rudeness with words that exhibit honor for the husband God gave me.
These alternatives show respect:
Ask questions: Give him a chance to express himself. Example: "What made work so difficult today?"
Keep it simple: Make clear statements about issues. Example: "I'm not sure that's going to work. Are there any other options?"
Encourage: Choose words that highlight his individuality. Example: "I love that he's daring enough to wear that."
Tell the truth: Express concerns and affirm positive changes. Example: "It's been really hard for us when you're late; I appreciate you making the effort to get home earlier."
I show respect to my husband because God brought up the subject. It's His way of leading me into a marriage that is blessed as it reflects the loving relationship between Christ and His bride, the church. Marriage has a purpose far greater than my husband's and my relationship. Our unity expressed in love and respect is nothing short of God's witness to the world of His great love.
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